In today's times NO ONE wants to accept responsibilty.
NO ONE wants to be to blame!
What does this make of our society?
I am not trying to answer this question, nor am I trying to argue or debate,
but this term "Socially Acceptable Excuse"
Struck me so interesting...
At first I was like HUH???
An excuse is bad, right...?
Excuses are unacceptable, I believe they are unnecessary, right?
Own responsibility and solve the problem, that is what I think, but then as the
Socially Acceptable Excuses were named off and described I understood that I have been programmed and taught to ACCEPT them as "NORMAL" and the more it was elaborated I began to understand...
Since that day it has to continued to be fresh in my mind and I have pondered the results and consequences of our society taking this position and accepting these "EXCUSES" as valid arguments.????
1. (of two things) So opposed in character as to be incapable of existing together.
"We are Incompatible"- GUESS WHAT PEOPLE WE ARE ALL INCOMPATIBLE, WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT
Definition of IRRECONCILABLE. : impossible to reconcile <irreconcilable differences>. — ir·rec·on·cil·abil·i·ty \-ˌre-kən-ˌsī-lə-ˈbi-lə-tē\ noun ...
1. Restore friendly relations between: "she wanted to be reconciled with her father".
2. Cause to coexist in harmony; make or show to be compatible
There are many matters where we may have "differences" but not being able to "COEXIST IN HARMONY" is only hurting youself. Forgiveness allows you to move forward from that.
Using this as an EXCUSE is silly, it is silly to think that someone actually sat there and coined this term!!
"Hmmm, yup, they can't get along and can't forgive...let's just call it Irrecincilable differences so WE can move on ans stop wasting our time"
NO FAULT DIVORCE:
A marriage-dissolution system whereby divorce is granted without the necessity of one of the parties guilty of marital misconduct.
IT SOMEBODY'S FAULT PEOPLE!!!
These are excuses, as responsible citizens there should be a commitment to accepting responsibity. RIGHT???
WE try to instill these values in our children and lack the effort when we become adults...
JUST A THOUGHT!!!